Also Ebi Palaver

Ask any lady getting married in Nigeria about her idea of what So Ebi would look like and she would probably be all smiles.  But come to think of it, is it really necessary and worth all the headache or just a waste of resources.  These days,  people are already getting So Ebi for their birthdays  child dedication,  House warming party and even the death of a puppy in the house.  Who invented Adopted Ebi anyways and why is it worth the stress? Your opinion really matter on this issue which had some couples splitting up just few days before their wedding all because the man doesn't want any Aso Ebi and the lady insisted no Aso Ebi,  no wedding.  Please drop your comments below for others to learn on the importance .